says tegan:

Dating is really hard. Maybe it's cos people aren't crazy like me. But the best part of having a relationship is laying down next to them at the end of the night and being able to tell them all the crazy things that happened to you all day long. In the end that's what it's about kids, it's not about the sex or the money they give you. It's not about how good looking they are. It's about "can they listen to you talk for hours and hours about stupid shit that doesn't matter?" If they can, then you are meant to be together forever, even if that means you have to call them 100 times... That's okay. That's not the moral of the story. Thank you.